Memorial service

Yukari's family had planned a memorial service for deceased relatives this summer, as it was a time when many of us were either in Niigata or could travel here easily. The service was held over the weekend, which also coincided with the local summer festival in town, so those who wished to stay could enjoy that as well. Buddhist memorial services in Japan are usually held during the 1st year, and then subsequently in in the 3rd and 5th, 7th and 13th years after a family member passes.

There were several relatives that came from the Tokyo area, as well as from Fukushima -- some of whom stayed at the house here in Niigata after the earthquake and events in that area this spring. There was a traditional ceremony with the Buddhist monk in the morning, followed by a feast that lasted most of the day.

The next morning we visited the family grave site to clean up, burn incense, and to leave some flowers and other items at the tombs. Many family members left for home after that, and though it was nice to see everyone again, it was a sad to see them go so soon.